“United we stand, divided we fall”.
Begin to set up a support group, a community, that guide you to meeting your goals and overcoming your challenges. Be accountable. Surround yourself ONLY with people that want you to succeed.
A tool I’ve used is the following:
Go through your phone and start by erasing contacts that you haven’t spoken to for a year. Secondly, go through the contacts that might challenge the newer you and erase them. Thirdly, remove all negative thinking contacts. These people have rented space in your phone for too long. Be careful who you surround yourself with.
Try this exercise. I found it very empowering.